This is not for guys who are looking for buffed-up young guys. Most of these men that attend are 45+, married and/or attached. They have various fantasies of being with another male (or group) to suck, fuck and lots of body contact. Very informal. Guys do not have to play but could be watching porn and what others are doing. Everyone is naked. Shower available to freshen up. Friday night is more orgy and Saturday night is more into kink.